The not to-do list

I like lists. And even though I am thankful that I live in the computer age and use a computer every single day, I like to hand write my lists. I like my lists to be neat, printed, and numbered. I enjoy drawing a line through the items as I complete them. I have been known to accomplish something that was not on my list, then put it on my list, just so I can draw a line through it. Lists are good.

Bryan Dodge, a great speaker and author, wrote in his book, "Good Life Rules" about the not to do list. I agree with Bryan that a not to do list is important to have on hand.

Each one of us will have our own items on it, and for the most part, the items are not as important as just having the list to keep control of your life. We have all met people who can not say no. But saying no is vital to a well balanced life.

So this week, spend some time thinking about your priorities and beliefs. Then based on those stamdards, create a not to do list that will help you say no. It is a great tool to stay focused and keep your priorities in line.

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His priorities are straight, are yours?

Recently, I talked to a man who, at a young age, hit his goal. He had spent more than a decade working his way up the company ladder and he was in control of a division. From that position, he did not like the view.

The view was many hours at work and very few hours at home. The view was missing ballgames and other family moments that he knew he would never get back. He decided it was not worth it. So he stepped down from that position and got a job, with much less pay, and much more time. As he put it, he has never been happier.

I am not suggesting that you need to follow his footsteps. But, I think it is important for all of us to take a step back and assess our priorities. A readjustment of priorities will always come with decisions and trade offs. More time with family could possibly mean less things. For the man in our example, it was simple and his family supported his decision.

This week, find some quiet time and just think. What are your priorities? What is important? Remember, we have one shot on this earth, make sure that you give it your best. And your best usually does not mean things.

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